"It is precisely when we hear little from our partner which frightens, shocks, or sickens us that we should begin to be concerned, for this may be the ...

We are humiliated by what is powerful and mean, but awed by what is powerful and noble.
~ Alain de Botton ~












We are humiliated by what is powerful and mean, but awed by what is powerful and noble.

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