"I'm also interested in the modern suggestion that you can have a combination of love and sex in a marriage - which no previous society has ever believ...

The desire for high status is never stronger than in situations where "ordinary" life fails to answer a median need for dignity and comfort.
~ Alain de Botton ~












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