"The business card does not fully reflect who we are. We are being judged, we feel, in a humiliating way. We feel there is so much in us that has not g...

Most business meetings involve one party elaborately suppressing a wish to shout at the other: 'just give us the money'.
~ Alain de Botton ~












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