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Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow th...more

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Dominator culture teaches all of us that the core of our identity is defined by the will to dominate and control others. We are taught that this will ...more

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The men in my life have always been the folks who are wary of using the word 'love' lightly. They are wary because they believe women make too much of...more

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Visionary feminism is a wise and loving politics. It is rooted in the love of male and female being, refusing to privilege one over the other. The sou...more

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Individual heterosexual women came to the movement from relationships where men were cruel, unkind, violent, unfaithful. Many of these men were radica...more

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I think the number one thing Black women and all Black people should be paying attention to is our health.

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What's really sad is that so many young women between the ages of 16 and 25 are ignorant and they already believe that women get the same pay as men. ...more

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Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood fee...more

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Since men are not equals in white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal class structure, which men do women want to be equal to?

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When we understand love as the will to nurture our own and another's spiritual growth, it becomes clear that we cannot claim to love if we are hurtful...more

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The best sex and the most satisfying sex are not the same. I have had great sex with men who were intimate terrorists, men who seduce and attract by g...more

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Both men and women remain in dysfunctional, loveless relationships when it is materially opportune.

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I mostly want to remind her of the recipes of healing, and give her my own made-on-the spot remedy for the easing of her pain. I tell her, “Get a pen....more

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Writing is my passion. Words are the way to know ecstasy. Without them life is barren. The poet insists, language is a body of suffering and when you ...more

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Her love of words is a private passion - one she would rather not share. In the house of her childhood though everything had to be shared. If she trie...more