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Being in love means being at the mercy of someone's childhood.

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Freud wrote that love involves the undervaluation of reality and the overvaluation of the desired object. While the correct valuation of a person is a...more

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You don't stop loving someone just because you hate them.

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I know love is dark work; you have to get your hands dirty. If you hold back, nothing interesting happens. At the same time, you have to find the righ...more

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Falling in love was simple; one had only to yield. Digesting another person, however, and sustaining love, was bloody work, and not a soft job.

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If there’s no sacrifice, there’s no love.