"When you are in your twenties, even if you're confused and uncertain about your aims and purposes, you have a strong sense of what life itself is, and...












What you end up remembering isn't always the same as what you have witnessed.

More Julian Barnes quotes
"For the point is this: not that myth refers us back to some original event which has been fancifully transcribed as it passed through collective memor...
"If a memory wasn't a thing but a memory of a memory of a memory, mirrors set in parallel, then what the brain told you now about what it claimed had h...
"He didn’t really like travel, of course. He liked the idea of travel, and the memory of travel, but not travel itself.
"Remember the botched brothel-visit in L’Education sentimentale and remember its lesson. Do not participate: happiness lies in the imagination, not the...
"If you remember your past too well you start blaming your present for it. Look what they did to me, that's what caused me to be like this, it's not my...
"But I don't remember. I won't remember. Memory is an act of will, and so is forgetting.
"Though why should we expect age to mellow us? If it isn't life's business to reward merit, why should it be life's business to give us warm, comfortab...
"You may say, But wasn't this the Sixties? Yes, but only for some people, only in certain parts of the country.
"What is history? Any thoughts, Webster?''History is the lies of the victors,' I replied, a little too quickly.'Yes, I was rather afraid you'd say that...
"Was this their exact exchange? Almost certainly not. Still, it is my best memory of their exchange.
"In my terms, I settled for the realities of life, and submitted to its necessities: if this, then that, and so the years passed. In Adrian's terms, I ...
"We live with such easy assumptions, don't we? For instance, that memory equals events plus time. But it's all much odder than this. Who was it said th...
"...I need to return briefly to a few incidents that have grown into anecdotes, to some approximate memories which time has deformed into certainty.
"Back then, things were plainer: less money, no electronic devices, little fashion tyranny, no girlfriends. There was nothing to distract us from our h...