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But when you've had children with someone you're divorced from, divorce defines everything; it's the lurking fact, a slice of anger in the pie of your...more

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People always say that once it goes away, you forget the pain. It’s a cliché of childbirth: you forget the pain. I don’t happen to agree. I remember t...more

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But the main problem with our marriages was not that our husbands wouldn’t share the housework but that we were unbelievably irritable young women and...more

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But the truth is you don't always know you're getting a divorce. For years, you're married. Then, one day, the concept of divorce enters your head. It...more

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. . .once you find out he's cheated on you, you have to keep finding out, over and over and over again, until you've degraded yourself so completely t...more