"If you are pro love, you have to be a little bit disloyal to the romantic feelings that propel you in the early days.












we would not reliably assent to reproduce unless we first had lost our minds.

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"He feared that by leaving her he would ruin her life - so he stayed, and did just that.
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"It's hard loving those who don't much like themselves: "If you're so great, why would you think I'm so great.