"The second hugely seductive move is to signal that we view the other person with a mixture of tenderness and realism. It’s often imagined that it’ll b...

Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
~ Alain de Botton ~












Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.

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