"Men weren’t really the enemy — they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate whe...












No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.
More Betty Friedan quotes
"It is easier to live through someone else than to complete yourself. The freedom to lead and plan your own life is frightening if you have never faced...
"You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
"A woman today who has no goal, no purpose, no ambition patterning her days into the future, making her stretch and grow beyond that small score of yea...
"There is something less than fully human in those who have never known a commitment to an idea, who have never risked an exploration of the unknown, w...
"The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive.
"American housewives have not had their brains shot away, nor are they schizophrenic in the clinical sense. But if … the fundamental human drive is not...
"The key to the trap is, of course, education. The feminine mystique has made higher education for women seem suspect, unnecessary and even dangerous. ...
"The feminists had destroyed the old image of woman, but they could not erase the hostility, the prejudice, the discrimination that still remained.
"It is perhaps beside the point to remark that bowling alleys and supermarkets have nursery facilities, while schools and colleges and scientific labor...
"When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women's passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to c...
"The feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
"Why should anyone raise an eyebrow because a latter-day Einstein’s wife expects her husband to put aside that lifeless theory of relativity and help h...
"It is not possible to preserve one's identity by adjusting for any length of time to a frame of reference that is in itself destructive to it. It is v...
"The unpleasant image of the feminists today resembles less the feminists themselves than the image fostered by the interests who so bitterly opposed t...