"The priesthood is a marriage. People often start by falling in love, and they go on for years without realizing that love must change into some other ...












Mercifully one forgets one's love affairs as one forgets one's dreams.
More Iris Murdoch quotes
"We can only learn to love by loving.
"Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
"The past and present are after all so close, almost one, as if time were an artificial teasing out of a material which longs to join, to interpenetrat...
"Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
"I know how much you grieve over those who are under your care: those you try to help and fail, those you cannot help. Have faith in God and remember t...
"The past and the present are after all so close, so almost one, as if time were an artificial teasing out of a material which longs to join, to interp...
"But it was just luck really if the girls survived. You're like a man firing a machine gun into a supermarket who happens not to become a murderer.