Brené Brown quote: When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the ...

When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.

~ Brené Brown ~

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